"If we
could place time in a bottle, we would have less need for memories and less
regret for wasted days.” So contends Mark J. Ehlers in The Journey Continues, a
new collection of essays on life, baseball, people and ideas from the author
that brought us Eat Bananas and Follow Your Heart and Life Goes On.
In The Journey Continues, Ehlers writes about ideas and people who inspire
and intrigue him, reflects on the mystery of life, and struggles out-loud with
the human quest for understanding. He writes about family, of love, loss, and
missed conversations. And he writes about baseball as a game that “embodies the
American spirit, the promise of childhood, and dreams of young boys in old
men’s bodies."
"I hope
someday my daughters recall fondly the times they spent in a car with their
Dad, the baseball games we attended, our conversations and shared adventures.
For it is the memories that sustain us and help make sense of the past; that
allow us to live with passion and purpose in the present.” - "Sunday
Mornings and Hot Dog Stands"
"History,
like memory, is elusive; what we choose to remember and document but a collage
of selective images and stories. What seems important one day is lost on
another, set aside in a vacant warehouse filled with old history books and
dusty memoirs. As the years progress, we remember less and immortalize but a
small sampling of men and women who over their lifetimes influenced the course
of human events." - "Angelic Troublemaker: The Quiet Legacy of Bayard
Rustin"
"When
the end of our lives draw near, it will be the friendships we have made, the
kindnesses we have bestowed, the lessons we have taught and learned from each
other that will remain behind; tiny footprints of memory in the lives we have
touched along the way." - "Done Too Soon"
"The world
will forever remain a complex place, full of disappointment and despair.
Religious extremism and religious conflict are part of the problem, but so is
religious illiteracy -- the failure to understand the 'other' and the
many dimensions and faces of religious belief and practice in the world today.
Perhaps if we recognize how fortuitous are the origins of our own
religious identities, we will make more meaningful connections to people
of other faiths, or of no faith, and the many who remain conflicted about
faith. Then, too, we may see more clearly that which we have in common -- the
desire for community and fellowship, the need for foundational principles, and
the search for God in a broken world." - "The Interfaith Imperative of the 21st Century"
"Only through
art can we achieve perfection. Through poetry and literature, a beautiful
painting, a thoughtful sonnet, or perhaps a prayer for peace, we can put forth
a thought, a story, an image, or a philosophical query that achieves precisely
what the artist or author intended. When I write, I edit and re-write, changing
words and sentences, restructuring paragraphs, until I am satisfied that the
combination of written words has the desired effect. But life, as we know, is not
a work of art; perfection eludes us all." - "Finding Strength in What Remains Behind"
"I understand
that moral reflection is often a non-existent luxury in the heat of war. But it
is imperative that, as citizens and human beings with a moral conscience, we
continue to ask questions of and debate our past actions. For we have, in the
words of Robert Kennedy 'unlocked the mystery of nature . . . [and] must live
with the power of complete self-destruction. This is the power of choice, the
tragedy and glory of man.' The real dangers come from us, from the egos,
passions, prejudices and jealousies of humanity itself. It is these forces we
must together overcome or, in the end, we will defeat ourselves." - "Reflections on the Darker Impulses of Humanity"
"Walking the grounds of Monticello, I thought of the many complexities, the shades of gray that so often permeate the human condition. Is anyone really ever the embodiment of pure goodness, or pure evil? So often, we place people and nations in black-and-white boxes, for it is easier to justify our actions when we do so. It is how nations build support for warfare and organized violence. It allows us to place on pedestals our own designated heroes. But rarely are the people who occupy the nations with whom we disagree full of pure evil, or the people who inspire us made of pure goodness. Criminals and prostitutes, businessmen and thieves, generals and inspiring leaders – all are at one time infants and children; all at some point in life long for the loving embrace of a mother or the prideful moments of a child’s accomplishments; and all are imperfect." - "Monticello and the Jefferson Paradox"
"Walking the grounds of Monticello, I thought of the many complexities, the shades of gray that so often permeate the human condition. Is anyone really ever the embodiment of pure goodness, or pure evil? So often, we place people and nations in black-and-white boxes, for it is easier to justify our actions when we do so. It is how nations build support for warfare and organized violence. It allows us to place on pedestals our own designated heroes. But rarely are the people who occupy the nations with whom we disagree full of pure evil, or the people who inspire us made of pure goodness. Criminals and prostitutes, businessmen and thieves, generals and inspiring leaders – all are at one time infants and children; all at some point in life long for the loving embrace of a mother or the prideful moments of a child’s accomplishments; and all are imperfect." - "Monticello and the Jefferson Paradox"
"No sport lends
itself to the art of writing and the literary craft more than baseball. It is a
game embedded in the ever changing landscape of America, from the crowded
streets of 1950’s New York and Prohibition Chicago to the westernmost expanse
of coastal California. Through the distractions of war and struggles for the
rights of man, baseball’s appeal remains constant. It is a game that draws us
to the memories of youth, of dirt stains and the scent of freshly cut grass on
a spring day, of perfectly shaped infields and the lonely arc of a fly ball on
a windy, sun-drenched afternoon. As I grow older and my athletic skills recede
ever further into the distant past, I feel a small pain in my heart as I watch
the ease and effortless joy with which today’s major leaguers perform the daily
routines of batting practice and fielding drills. It is a young man’s game. I
long for the rare moments of eternal grace, when the game allows me to stay
forever young and live the romanticized dreams of childhood." - "On Baseball and Writing: Roger Angell and the Summer Game"
"For six
consecutive seasons, I watched with a touch of envy as the Ripken brothers
stood a few feet apart near the second base bag and fielded ground balls
casually tossed from the first basemen between innings, or chatted with each
other during pitching changes as the relief pitcher warmed up. I remember
thinking how fortunate they were to be playing a game they loved and had played
together as children. When most men had long since abandoned their dreams, here
they were as brothers, playing alongside each other in a major league park,
turning double plays for the same team, and sharing the experience of a
lifetime together. It is the stuff of which dreams are made." – “On Brothers and
Baseball”
"When I
attend games in person, whether at the grand cathedrals of major league
baseball or at the local high school fields and parks near my home, I love to
watch the action between innings, when the pitcher takes his warm-up throws,
the first baseman lofts ground balls to the infielders, and the outfielders
play a relaxed game of catch from 200 feet apart. The graceful rhythms of the
ballplayers create a symphony of movement, baseballs flowing in multiple
directions, all with a sense of linear purpose. At these moments, the game
encompasses my imagination, allows me to remember the feelings and love I had
for the game as a player, and reminds me of the dreams I held onto until
reality and life set me straight." – “Why Time Begins on Opening Day”
(c) 2017 by Mark J. Ehlers
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OTHER BOOKS BY MARK EHLERS:
Life Goes On:
More Essays on Life, Baseball, and Things that Matter
Part memoir and part reflection, in Life Goes On, Ehlers addresses life in all its dimensions; the passage of time and of unmet dreams, the conflicts of faith in a secular age, the redeeming quality of the human spirit, and a lifelong bond with baseball. It is for anyone who believes that life is too precious to cease thinking and learning, and recognizes that, in the words of Abraham Joshua Heschel, "There is no human being who does not carry a treasure in his soul: a moment of insight, a memory of love, a dream of excellence..."
"Some people believe in destiny and fate, others in
free will. For most us, life is but a roll of the dice, a complex mixture of
chance and circumstance that affects the course of our lives. We do not choose
the country of our birth and have no say in the immediate circumstances of our
upbringing. We do not choose our ethnicity, our race, or the major events of
history that coincide with our own personal histories. Some people are born
rich and privileged, while others are born poor and unloved. But all of us must
learn to live with the cards we are dealt and, ultimately, choose how we
live." - "Marty and Gertrude: An American Story"
"Conventional
wisdom teaches that one should never discuss religion and politics in polite
company. I have never quite understood this, as I believe human interaction is
at its best when people are not afraid to reveal themselves, when we are open
to civil discourse and healthy give-and-take on matters of substance. Besides,
the weather has never been all that interesting to me. But perhaps this is why
I am not invited to many dinner parties." - "On Faith, Politics, and the Christian Divide"
"Being a fan requires certain fortitude and a
willingness to endure pain and heartbreak. Only true fans can really understand
this. When everyone else says, “Grow up” or “Get a life”, we just shake our
heads with the knowledge that the non-fan lacks discernment. A true fan
connects to a team the way one connects to immediate family; we are wrapped up
in our team’s identity, its players form part of our secret inner circle. I can
criticize a player on my team, but if a Phillies fan knocks my second baseman,
he just may find extra spices in his cheese steak, if you catch my drift."- "The End of Winter"
"If my world were
to end tomorrow, I need only look back on my experience as a father, on the
pleasure, humor, and excitement of watching young minds develop and characters
formed, to know that it was all worthwhile. Whatever sadness my life has
experienced, and whatever regrets about my choices and outcomes, I know that I
am blessed, that life has been easier for me than for most. The small joys, the
little pleasures, these will have been enough." - "Life Goes On"
(c) 2013 by Mark J. Ehlers
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(c) 2013 by Mark J. Ehlers
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Eat Bananas and Follow Your Heart:
Essays on Life, Politics, Baseball, and Religion
Essays on Life, Politics, Baseball, and Religion
Eat Bananas and Follow Your Heart is Ehlers' first collection of interesting and touching essays on life, politics, baseball, and religion. It is for anyone who believes that life is too short to remain uninvolved, time too precious to cease learning, thinking, caring, and laughing.
“It was not until I turned 50
earlier this year . . . that I sensed for the first time that certain of my
dreams may forever be deferred, that time is a gift, its limits felt with the
passing of each year. Though it seems as if I need constant reminding that I am
no longer a young man, fresh from law school, determined to accomplish
high-minded things, I remain confident and sure of myself about certain
matters, full of doubts and insecurities about others. But I now recognize and
feel, gradually, incrementally, the burdens of aging . . . I know now that life
is not forever. Mortality awaits me and, for the first time in my life, I am
truly aware of its dimensions. This is not necessarily a bad thing, for it
forces one to recognize the truly important things in life – family,
relationships, closeness with God, and the true meaning of success. As Albert
Huffstickler wrote, ‘Knowing there's only so much time, I don't rejoice less
but more.’” - “The Meaning of Fifty: A Personal Reflection”
“To study American history
is, in part, to chronicle the distance between the ideals of American democracy
and the realities of American life. One cannot proclaim to love America, yet
ignore its blemishes. A true patriot recognizes the glorious nature of
America’s past, but strives constantly to achieve that which our founders hoped
to achieve – ‘to form a more perfect Union’ as stated in the preamble to the
Constitution – and to narrow the distance between our ideals and our
shortcomings.” - “Notes on Patriotism and Celebrating America”
“Somewhere along the way, we
seem to have lost sight of the common good; we have failed to recognize that
the human race is in dire need of a helping hand, some understanding, and
kindness, and that we are all in this journey together. Perhaps a search for
meaning and purpose, in our work, in our relationships, in our lives, will lead
the way to creating a more just and compassionate world, and an economic system
that rewards hard work and success without leaving all others behind.” - “On
Economics, Values, and Meaning”
“Perhaps someday I will grow
up, develop perspective, finally realize that baseball is only a game, a
pastime, a place of pastoral beauty, symmetry, and timeless perfection intended
to soothe a weary soul. For now, I am forced to face the fall alone.” - “Life as
a Cardinals Fan: Of Hope and Heartbreak”
“It is during these brief
moments of sanity, in the quiet solitude of an off day, when I understand why
those closest to me may mistakenly believe that my life during baseball season
falls into an abyss of warped priorities.” - “Random Thoughts at the All-Star
Break”
(c) 2011 by Mark J. Ehlers
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(c) 2011 by Mark J. Ehlers
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